Hi BG brides! I’d like to introduce myself: I’m Stefania, the new wedding whisperer-in-training. As a real bride on a budget, I’m constantly searching for ways to cut wedding-planning costs without compromising the quality of the glamorous nuptials I’ve always envisioned. Two months before I earned my Masters diploma, my then-boyfriend Jason gave me the biggest shock of my life when he dropped down on one knee after five years of dating—I was finally engaged! I’ll never forget the feeling that swept over me when he opened the box containing my cushion-cut sparkler and placed it on my finger, seagulls cawing and waves lapping the shore where we stood. That night, as I tossed and turned and dreamt and wakened, reliving those ten glorious minutes over and over again, it finally occurred to me: we would have to start planning (and paying) for the day when we would proclaim forever in front of hundreds. Gulp…how were we going to pull it off?

We all know that being a bridesmaid can mean parting with some serious cash. Your pals not only have to shell out for a new ensemble, but they also plan both your bachelorette party and shower. Not to mention, they need to give you gifts for the shower and wedding! (In fact, many of you have probably been bridesmaids yourselves and know the deal.) They may even have to pay for transportation if your wedding is some distance away. When all is said and done, being a bridesmaid can cost several hundred dollars, so showing your gratitude is key. Make sure they know how much you appreciate all that they’re doing. Years ago, brides used to host a bridesmaid tea or luncheon, but you can certainly do things your own way to express your thanks. Take them out for drinks and dinner, or plan a barbecue or pool party. Book a day at a spa or plan your own spa night at home. It’s a great excuse to unwind, relax and reminisce.

Ahoy my matey-honeymooners! I’ve been on the road a bunch in the last few months and most of that time has been spent hanging with the Mouse. True story—I was at the Magic Kingdom for the 20th anniversary celebration of the Happily Ever wedding program and then I set sail on the new Disney Dream, the latest boat to join the fleet. (For more on each adventure, look out for the story in the September/October issue of your favorite wedding mag.) I love the Magic Kingdom; the suspense of disbelief and the idea that anything is possible (except for maybe a healthy meal) permeates the air. I love watching the Electric Light Parade, seeing the kids in awe of the princesses and hopping on those rides! Pirates of the Caribbean has always been one of my favorite rides at the flagship park. And to coincide with the premiere of the latest installment in the movie extravaganza, one of my fave neighborhood accessories design shops has created a limited-edition line. The pieces, which include scarves, bags and wallets, are available on the company’s website, haydenharnett.com, and start at $78. You may have to duel me for that Beautiful Dead Scarf—arg! 

—Jenna Mahoney

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