You'll Never Believe How This Wedding Planner Proposed!

Jack Bermeo has helped hundreds of couples plan the happiest day of their lives and along the way, he's heard every proposal story imaginable. So, when the tables flipped, and it was his turn to ask for his longtime girlfriend Sophia's hand in marriage, the CEO of LJDJs Event Design & Entertainment in New Jersey found himself in an unusual predicament. How does a professional wedding planner pop the question in a unique way that has never been done before? 

His answer: Pull off the ultimate bait-and-switch by staging a fake wedding that's actually all for them! We're talking an 80-person guest list, DJ, flowers, a cake, the works. Jack enlists Danny and Chris to play the role of the happy grooms (they're just good friends), along with clients and business associates to act as the bridal party and parents. The couple's friends and family are in on the plan, too.

During the first dance, Jack professes his love to his unsuspecting bride-to-be and the mother of his child, but as he gets down on one knee, she exclaims, "No, you can't do this right here!" (She doesn't understand why he's stealing the newlywed couple's thunder.) When she realizes the truth, naturally, she says yes!

Watch this incredible proposal unfold:

In the video, prior to getting engaged, Sophia explains that she would have been happy with any proposal no matter what the setting was (their shower, their living room, etc.) She never expected that Jack would execute such a memorable event.

This Sister Wedding Dress Shoot Is the Cutest Idea Ever

No, these are not sister wives. These five women are wives who happen to be sisters, and they came up with the best idea ever — a sister photo shoot in their wedding dresses.

While most brides would love any excuse to wear their wedding dress again, one of the sisters, Cassie Gant, explains their motivation: "We did this shoot as a thank you to my parents for their love and support in not only our weddings, but in our marriages."

How sweet is that? Check out their laughter- and twirl-filled shoot by Rachel Blackwell!

Etiquette Q&A: "When Do We Give Our Attendants Their Gifts?"

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Photo Credit: Jeff Loves Jessica on Jenna Lou Designs via Lover.ly

Q. When is the best time to give our attendants their gifts?

A. Most brides and grooms give their gifts to the wedding party at the rehearsal dinner. Following the main course, dessert is served and the toasts begin. Just so you know, it is customary for the best man to start off by toasting the couple, followed by the groom’s father (traditionally the groom’s parents are the hosts of the event). Afterward, you can acknowledge your attendants and give them the gifts. How you do so is entirely up to you. You can keep things lighthearted and fun or be a bit more sentimental. You can make a general announcement and dispense the gifts all at once, or you might want to say something special about each member of your wedding party before presenting that person with your memento. Do what feels most natural and comfortable. I’m sure your friends will appreciate however you choose to honor them.

—Diane Forden

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Photo courtesy of Details Made Simple

Tip of the Day: Make a date/advice jar! "It is a great personal touch for your wedding that allows your guests to have some fun while there," says Carla Friday from Details Made Simple. Display pre-cut paper or craft sticks, and markers so that your guests can jot down their best suggestions. "If you are bored one night, looking for something to do, or need a little marriage advice, simply pick one from the jar and enjoy!" she says.

Plus, check out 15 Fun Alternatives for Your Guest Book.

Suffering from Wedding Sticker Shock?

Designing your dream day at a price you can afford is one of the hardest aspects of the wedding-planning process. As helpful and inspirational as social media is for brides, it can also be our worst nightmare in terms of budget.

As a wedding planner, I see this all the time. A client might not realize that the inspirational wedding vision she is building on her Pinterest board would cost her close to $300K when she is working with a $45K budget. It's raised the bar of creativity — there is no doubt about that — creating more pressure that your wedding will stand apart from the rest. Sure, there are a number of wedding DIY blogs and step-by-step guides to try, but there are also a lot of over-the-top wedding trends coming at you from all angles. 

Reality television and the overload of celebrity wedding coverage have also contributed to larger-than-life expectations for the average bride. As much as I enjoyed watching the elaborate nuptials of Kim Kardashian and The Bachelorette unfold, unlike the average bride, I also know how much these types of productions cost since I work in the bridal industry.

One of my favorite tasks is determining a couple's vision, helping them decide which aspects of their dream wedding they simply can't live without, and then figuring out how to make everything fit within their financial means. Here are a few common obstacles that I run into with my clients:

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Which Wedding Dress Style is Right For You?

Whether vintage-inspired, thoroughly modern or subtly glamorous, opt for a gown that perfectly reflects your fashionable flair.

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September 10th

Photo courtesy of Bloomers Florist

Tip of the Day: "Floral decorations do not always have to be elaborate to have an impact. Think about having your florist craft wire into shapes that are light, airy and can be hung with ribbon. They can use flowers that will remain hardy without water - such as daisy poms, carnations or even spray roses," says Janine McMahon, the owner of Bloomers Florist in Dayton, Nevada and a featured florist on BloomNation.com.

Plus, find out How to Save Money on Your Wedding Flowers.

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