Music selections for weddings are so incredibly personal, specifically what’s played during your ceremony. Everyone's preferences are different; if you aren't interested in going with traditional instrumental songs, our wedding experts have plenty of creative choices to consider while you walk down the aisle.
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"Ceremony music sometimes feels like it has to fall into a traditional category, but it does not! Your wedding ceremony is about the two of you and your story, so choose something that feels like the two of you — whether that is jazz music, traditional Canon in D, or even the soundtrack to Lord of the Rings (this has happened!). It is important to have ceremony music that fits the vibe of your ceremony and is comforting and special to the couple." —Liney Castle, Twickenham House and Hall
"Unless your ceremony venue requires sacred music, we always suggest couples choose songs that mean something to them. For example, choose a song for your bridesmaids to enter that is an instrumental version of a song you jammed out to at your bachelorette party or have fond memories singing while growing up together. Some guests may not realize the rendition and think it is an elegant song. Your bridesmaids will know this is a little wink to them and reminds them how much you appreciate them being a part of your day." —Casey Cannon, EBJ & Company
"I love the idea of using instrumental covers of non-traditional songs, personally. Walking down the aisle to an acoustic version of your favorite indie or rock song is unexpected and personal while still maintaining the elegance of the moment. For the processional, string quartets or piano renditions of modern hits can add a fresh vibe as well." —Craig Peterman, Craig Peterman Photography & Videography
"If you're having a destination wedding, take inspiration from your locale, like a mariachi band in Mexico or a steel drum band in Jamaica. This sets the mood and offers an immersive and authentic cultural experience for you and your guests. It also serves as a unique photo opp!" —Jen Avey, Destination Weddings Travel Group
"One idea I suggest to my couples is to find an instrumental version of their first dance to use as the bride comes down the aisle. If your first dance is meaningful and special to you both, why not give it more of a presence on your big day? It is a very beautiful call back when you and your guests hear a version of your song during the ceremony, then the original for your first dance." —Dominic Fournier, The Wedding Duo
"Take a string quartet, but put a spin on it. Rather than having them perform the staple wedding songs, have them play some more contemporary music or music from throughout your life that means a lot to you and your spouse. Lean into your heritage and utilize instruments that reflect your and your spouse's cultures. Whether it be bagpipes, steel drums, or a sitar, pulling in the music that shaped your legacy can be a really nice and personal touch." —Colton Simmons, Colton Simmons Photography
"Are you looking for a party as you leave the ceremony? Hiring several musicians to replicate the iconic New Orleans Second Line is always a good idea. This gets your guests excited for the reception and gives them a chance to celebrate you in a unique way." —Loni Peterson, LP Creative Events
"I personally love live instruments added to your wedding day music! Anything from harpists, dulcimers, and guitars gives this feel of authenticity that I cannot explain! Many live musicians know (or can learn) up-to-date music and chords to match your nerdiness, style, and feel. You can also stick with some of the beautiful classics that transcend time and give your wedding ceremony a whole vibe. Use some of your favorite movie scores! I know my nerds out there would agree that some scores give that nerdy tone without having to yell out loud you are a big and loving goofball couple! There are some amazing scores out there that give whimsy, tonality, and modern twists to your wedding day that I can only imagine will bring smiles to many faces!" —Jen Sulak, Weirdo Weddings
From stylized fan favorites to live musicians, you can have your pick of the bunch for stepping out of the box with creative ceremony music. Remember, the tunes you choose can really set the stage for the reception and/or after-party!
Meghan Ely is the owner of wedding PR and wedding marketing firm OFD Consulting. Ely is a sought-after speaker and a self-professed royal wedding enthusiast.
